Introspection Parents

How do we solve our prejudicial attitudes? How do we show our children that, despite our own-there are other ways of acting more appropriate? After turning 16 years I've used electric razors for shaving, systematically opened the lid and poured the remains of hairs on the toilet was only done three years I understood that throwing the remains in the trash can avoid the higher water consumption and cleaner the sanitario.Ante kept simple thing to me was a small "crack?, my father was so great to me unwise for years tube, or at least as good conduct or práctica.Yo not believe he was right and I turned mobilized at least realize that I also took this behavior for so many simple años.Una meeting with parents woke me up interest in the introspection after realizing that teaching my children that I teach has many "hair runs in the toilet? things I do not understand improperly porqué.Entiendo we copy the "attitudes? that our teachers have taken to the situations and that education is not only the absorption of information, which we are raising our children the same behavior in such cases.

While we can not change the past if we can realize the reasons for our actions and understand that the paradigms with which we have done could be wrong and understand the porqué.No is our duty not to make mistakes but I think important to tell the reasons why hecho.Llevamos we have in ourselves a series of arguments grounded most unconscious through generations, for better or for mal.Como many, I have tried to be a good father, but I read many books will improve my job without deepen my story, the reason for my acciones.Por luck helped me a lot issues that I have taught at parent meetings. How to recognize childhood wounds? These wounds are in the unconscious and in the memories of childhood, without But there are behaviors that make manifest, few things in which we "note?, which suggests that we act on our side herida.En for the film" The Kid "Bruce Willi the protagonist - thanks to a "journey to the past? - is recalling moments of childhood that left him messages and ominous feelings of guilt and hatred. Relive the moment when I was 8 years old and his father rebuked him that his constant cries of a child would kill his mother, an event that happened then.

But understand that these events originated in the fears of parents felt unable to raise them alone, knowing the suffering that was near death of his wife, understands - from another point of view - that such expressions were the result of their fears but that really was not his thought expressed or cause intention guilt that lasted several years. Only after taking this perspective does forgive his father, to erase their resentment and change their behavior can approach him with sincerity and amor.Obviamente these new behaviors are those that "our children learn?. If we understand why our wrong behaviors larger setbacks save our children, founding the roots of its actions with arguments that attempts to write in their minds the principles we seek to give repetition. "Arguments?, Stronger than any reprimand. It's like the saying "a root cutting branches avoids many cuts? and the roots arrived with introspection. The facet that the people of today we need to deepen.